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Dear Diary: Flying with Children
Dear Diary, Flying back home with my children, and at least a dozen more, was a real test in staying grounded amid the nonstop chaos on the flight. The plane was full of children, more than I think I’ve ever seen on one flight. There were at least six families boarding with us, most with little ones under five. Seated right beside me was a little girl having a very hard time: screaming, thrashing, refusing to sit during takeoff. My heart went out to her immediately. I’ve bee

Della
Oct 232 min read


Dear Diary: Traveling With Children
Dear Diary, Traveling with children is both everything I dreamed it would be and not at all what I expected. Before kids, travel felt effortless. I packed light, (okay that's a lie, I've never been able to pack light), wandered with intention and a fairly tight itinerary (thanks to the husband), and stayed out late just because I could. My biggest concern was choosing between two hiking trails or deciding whether to splurge on dessert or order another drink. Now, it’s a diffe

Della
Oct 133 min read


Dear Diary: Finding Joy Through Attention
Dear Diary: This “Motherhood Slump,” or whatever it is I’m experiencing, has been full of unexpected revelations. Lately, I'm...

Della
Oct 93 min read


Dear Diary: Practicing Yoga for Me, Now.
Dear Diary, For years, I practiced the same exact yoga sequence six days a week. I loved it. Every posture, every flow, every hold was...

Della
Oct 73 min read


Dear Diary (and friends!): You've Been Boo'ed!
It's the best time of the year, Diary and friends! Last week, the three year old and I were walking down our street looking at our...

Della
Oct 22 min read


Dear Diary: An Exhausted Human or Motherhood Slump?
Dear Diary, These last few days I’ve felt drained, unmotivated, unfocused and just plain exhausted. It’s not the kind of tired that a...

Della
Sep 303 min read


Dear Diary: My 3 Year Old Says She's Not a Good Kid
Dear Diary, This morning my 3 year old looked at me and said, “Mommy, I am not a good kid.” Diary, my heart sank. Hearing those words in...

Della
Sep 252 min read


Dear Diary: I Will Not Be Tolerant of Harmful Religious Beliefs
Dear Diary, The husband and I have made a mini library of inside jokes from things we’ve overheard through the years. People watching is...

Della
Sep 223 min read


Dear Diary: Gun Violence Is Stealing My Sense of Safety
Dear Diary, Gun violence is stealing any sense of safety I’ve ever had; for myself, my family, and those I love. Yesterday, the 5 year...

Della
Sep 192 min read


Dear Diary: An Open Letter to My Husband
A Letter to My Husband on our 13th Wedding Anniversary Dear Husband: When we married 13 years ago, I didn’t realize we weren’t just...

Della
Sep 151 min read


Dear Diary: Being Kind and Walking Away Isn't Enough
Dear Diary, I recently had a conversation with a fellow parent about their daughter being picked on. The other child was cruel and...

Della
Sep 113 min read


5 Ways Being a Dance Instructor Helps Me Parent
Dear Friend, I have been a dancer for over three decades, I’ve been teaching dance for nearly two decades. I’ve learned and taught...

Della
Sep 83 min read


Dear Diary: The Show I Didn't Realize I Had
Dear Diary, For as long as I can remember, I've loved writing; the feel of a good pen, empty pages begging to be filled. I believe at one...

Della
Sep 83 min read


Dear Diary: How Can I Protect My Daughters When I Couldn’t Always Protect Myself?
Trigger Warning: this post discusses sexual harassment, sexual assault, and abuse of power in teaching environments. Dear Diary: I have a...

Della
Sep 83 min read


Dear Diary: Helping My 5 Year Old Sleep In Her Own Room
Helping My 5 Year Old Sleep In Her Own Room Dear Diary, There are a lot of milestones happening in my home and I'm not sure I'm fully...

Della
Sep 23 min read


Dear Diary: Too Many Children Are Dying
Too Many Children Are Dying Dear Diary: I am hurting today. Children are dying. Again. At school. At church. Where they’re supposed to be...

Della
Aug 281 min read


6 Everyday Self Care Tips to Refresh, Reset and Recharge
Some links in this post are affiliate links. This means if you click a product link and make a purchase, I may earn a small commission —...

Della
Aug 266 min read


Saying Goodbye to the Pacifier
Dear Diary, 9:32 AM We're doing it. We are saying goodbye to the pacifier! The 3-year-old threw her pacis into the trash can and said...

Della
Aug 233 min read


A 5 Minute Car Meditation for Busy Humans
A 5 Minute Car Meditation for Busy Humans Dear Friend, During the first week back to school, I spent nearly four hours a day stuck in my...

Della
Aug 212 min read


Dear Diary: Stop Telling Me to Let It Go
Dear Diary, I keep hearing: "just let it go" "stop letting the small things get to you" "it's not a big deal" and so on. To be honest, as...

Della
Aug 192 min read
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